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How To Believe In Yourself

I have a thirteen week course of hourly coaching sessions available, which has been specifically designed (and will be personally tailored). It is tried and tested to aid you in the process of gaining maximum self belief and will enable you to explode your potential and achieve your personal goals.

For more details please email me at:

and put “I Want To Believe In Me” in the heading of the email


You Are The Prism!

You are the prism – through which others see refracted light and love. It is through your personality and idiosyncrasy’s we all experience a little more of the divinity that fills this world.

You need to shine like a star, for it is of stardust you are made. Bathe us all in your light and your love, that we might see the path ahead for us a little more clearly.

Be yourself! Don’t be afraid to take the big decisions of your life! You are divinity, there is no right or wrong way for you to be!

All roads will take you where you were always meant to be. Trust the process, be at peace. God is love and He shines his light through you, She shows her love by you being you, like only you can!


To be fully yourself, to enable the love and light of creation to shine through you, I’d love to become your Coach/Confidante/Mentor for you to journey with me through a weekly/bi-weekly course over the next three/six months, to find lasting peace in all the different and changing circumstances of your life.

Please call me if you live in the UK on 07931 582 485, message me at Facebook or email me at “” so that we can begin together to make the rest of your life, the best of your life.

Mr Smiley meets The Caring Confidante



I am so honored to be making a guest appearance at the Midlife Retreat, I do hope you can join me as it is totally FREE and from the comfort of your own home! Not everyone can fly to an exotic location, have the financial means to do so, the patience to waste hours travelling, or the skills to organize loved ones left behind and conversational know-how to plead with the boss for leave!

So Kay Newton, The Caring Confidante has designed a weekly on-line Midlife Retreat, where individuals from the midlife arena are invited to share their knowledge wisdom and inspiration. You can listen in or join in the conversation as you wish AND I am so excited be the very first guest!

Just think of it as a Mini-Me-Moment, a time to be Sensibly Selfish. Do not worry if you can’t make the live event. As long as you sign up, the webinar will be available for you to watch at your leisure.


I met Kay 5 years ago, we connected on Facebook and then met in Sheffield for an all too ‘short’ cup of coffee and we have ‘followed’ each other ever since.

Kay is currently based on the exotic island of Zanzibar where the inspiration for the Midlife Retreat was created.

“Even as a Midlife Expert, living on a tropical island I do not have all the answers, with today’s modern technology we can connect easily via the internet anywhere in the world and share our stories and knowledge.”

In this Midlife Retreat Kay and I will be dipping into my past life as a Lay Preacher whilst being a lover of the music of David Bowie in and amongst other parts of my life’s journey, how important it is to be yourself and how wisdom is bigger than any of us even at Midlife.

To join us on the 11th of Jan at 9am GMT

Register here.

(Please make sure you are not using Safari as your browser or the platform will not work). Want to ask me a question? Just type it in and I will answer it live on the day.

If you want to find out more about Kay before the Midlife Retreat check her out here:

Time To Soar



“Man must rise above the Earth—to the top of the atmosphere and beyond—for only thus will he fully understand the world in which he lives!” – Socrates

One of the real benefits of having a Life Coach is that they can help you recognise where you are doing things habitually which are preventing you from getting where you want to go in your life. It is my intention that through my online “Handle On Life” I will with your permission help to remove you from auto-pilot in your life.

Each one of us has a deep seated desire to achieve things in our lives, what stop us is having a default setting for our behaviours.  I suggest that you become the Michelangelo in your own life and begin to sculpt the person you always intended to be. It is my assertion that my “Handle On Life” program  will help you do just that!

Through a series of videos, audios and workbooks as well as live interaction with me; you will began to recognise the beliefs, rules and values that you have inherited from others which are now preventing you from moving forward in your life. Have you ever thought why it is that you never seem to get where you want to go?

My “Handle On Life” course will help you create new beliefs, rules and values which will help you to soar, where you used to stay on the floor. I am thrilled to be able to share with you my 25+ years of study into the fascinating subject of results focused psychology and 10 years of experience in coaching people one on one.

I know it all seems a bit grand, but when you consider that in partnership we are about to create a new you through tried and tested tools and techniques, which I have used myself and had a ring side seat to watch others do the same. I don’t think it would be wise to belittle the possible impact that “Handle On Life” will have on you.

As further details emerge about the product in the next few days on my blog, please keep returning here to my blog to find out more or visit  the “Handle On Life” Facebook page at  #HandleOnLife

Handle On Life

Handle On Life


“How you handle the challenges of your life will define your life!” – Billy Cox

Many years ago now, I woke up from a dream with the words of a family member echoing in my head. She said to me (in the dream) I wish someone would help me get a handle on life. I have a pen and notebook by the side of my bed for such an occasion, so I wrote it down “Handle On Life” and found the .com and were available.

So here I am now excitedly about to launch my online coaching course called “Handle On Life” and as I engage in it’s preparations I want to let you know why I believe my course will be something you and many others will love. All of my life I have been fascinated why people say and do the things they say and do.

For the past 25 years plus, I have made a personal study of the popular psychology that exists around this subject. I have read many authors, listened  to many cassettes, cds and audio downloads of the great and the good in the field of personal development and read many biographies and auto-biographies (they are the best).

In recent years I have myself recorded many videos, audios and written inspirational articles and poems, which I have made freely available through social media. I am now inviting you to sit in the empty beach chair next to me (see the photo above) and let me share with you my “Handle On Life.”

Further details will emerge about this product in the next few days on my blog. Until then if you want to be sure keep up to date with what is going one with “Handle On Life” besides coming back here to my blog you can visit the Handle On Life presence on Facebook and like the page.