It’s taken me almost sixty years to realise that the person that matters most in my world is me!
I have always put others first and disrespected my own wishes in the process. Self-less men are to be admired and yet to never take authority for your own life is a mistake.
You are the supreme ruler in your own life, the chief chooser and outcome getter in your life. You have the power to get what you want, you just don’t have the power to make anyone else do what they don’t want to do.
Celebrate your own autonomy and individuality, but don’t forget to allow others to be themselves and do the same!