Are You Asking The Right Questions?

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“If you don’t go after what you want, you’ll never have it. If
you don’t ask, the answer is always no. If you don’t step
forward, you’re always in the same place.” – Nora Roberts

It’s easy to sit back and blame other people for us not having in our lives what it is that we really want. Maybe in the past you asked a friend or family member to do something for you, they agreed and then forgot about it! After all why apart from showing a kindness, should anyone give priority in doing something for someone else, when each of us has much we could and should be doing for ourselves?

I’m sure you’ve heard the saying “If it’s going to be, it’s up to me!” Well that’s the challenge Nora Roberts brings us today! If you and I want something badly enough we have to make the first moves, the second moves, in fact we must do all we can to make something happen if we are serious about having whatever it is in our lives!

If you are already pursuing your dreams, if it’s apparent to everyone that you have already taken action to bring about your own success; then, it is much more likely that other people will want to help you. Even if that is just answering a question and giving you the information that they have and you don’t.

It is of course true to say that if you never ask for help, then the result is the same as getting a answer in the negative. So, if you need help and you are willing to ask there is a 50/50 chance you will get the help you need. Your chances of help will increase, just by asking!

It’s obvious that stepping forward or making moves in the direction of your dreams will advance your cause in a way that remaining where you are can never do! So what steps must you take to advance your cause? What questions have you held back from asking that you will now ask? What have you not pursued that you will now have? Remember, it’s up to you, to make the moves, take the action and live your dreams!

Love and light to you from Andrew :) <3

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Uniquely Me


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Written and © Copyright 2011
By Andrew Paul Smith 23-11-2011


As I wake up in the morning
I know that I’m alive
When the movement of my arms
Don’t feel the coffin sides

The feeling is much better
Than a billion in the bank
My heart is full of gratefulness
And it’s God above I thank

For giving me a new day
To fill full of dreams come true
My destiny and mission to
Stop the world from feeling blue

To raise the human spirit and
To make humanity dance with glee
To be here to make a difference and
To be uniquely me

This life is my creation
Since my consciousness was raised
I’ve escaped the zombie death life
I’m six feet above my grave


The “Handle On Life” Top 20 Tips



Over the coming weeks and months I will be promoting a series of new products under the “Handle On Life” banner. A downloadable self coaching  course with a difference, which I will reveal to you nearer the time.

Today I am making the source document on which my initial product will be based available to you. After spending the last eight years as a Life Coach and the previous twenty as someone who made the study of Personal Development my main hobby, I have brought together the best advice possible into this book.

Although I have written this TOP 20 TIPS book myself, the wisdom it contains is only mine because I have spent the best part of the last 30 years, researching it, applying it and sharing it with my clients. The principles it contains will revolutionise your life as they have so very many people’s lives before. Ge t your copy today!

Here’s the link:

The “Handle On Life” Top 20 Tips

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Awake! Live! Love! Be A Shift Maker!



“Everything changes when you start to emit your own frequency, rather than absorbing the frequencies around you. When you start imprinting your intent on the universe rather than receiving an imprint from existence!” – Barbara Marciniak

So why are you here? Why did you show up on Planet Earth as an individual? It seems to me that the very point of being alive as a human is to reveal to others the uniqueness of your being!

What are you going to contribute to life? Will anyone remember you when you are gone? …

Surely you want your life to count for something? I know, it can all be so difficult, an uphill struggle just to get heard! But the alternative is much worse, to exist and then to die? Is that what you want?

You are a creative being, you have so much to give! You could make such a difference here, if you were just willing to take the consequences of being who you really are, and not allowing others or even yourself to discourage you. Don’t let anyone, including yourself from stopping you from doing the things that make you ache inside.

It’s time to live! It’s time to be! It’s time to do the things that you know deep inside you, that you were sent here to do.

What expression of love can you be today? What expression of love can you be tomorrow? Are there new ways you could express kindness?